Change and transitions
Life changes and the feeling of no longer recognizing your own path
Separations, moving to a new city, grief, or new life stages often bring the feeling that old reference points no longer work.
Life transitions, even when wanted, often bring a period of disorientation. The reference points that used to guide decisions, routines, and even how a person saw themselves stop making sense in the same way, and new, steady reference points are not yet in place.
This in-between period can be especially uncomfortable, because there is no ready-made script for going through it. It is common to feel like something has been lost, even when the change was a personal choice. This does not mean the decision was wrong: it means a real transition is underway.
What this looks like in practice
This shows up, for example, in someone who moves to a new city for a real, wanted opportunity, but feels an unexplainable sadness in the first few months. It is not regret — it is the period when the old reference points no longer apply and the new ones have not yet been built.
Psychotherapy can offer a stable space while this reorganization happens, helping a person understand what is changing and gradually build new reference points that fit the current stage of life.
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